The Song That Speaks for Every Eldest

ZALFA RYVTIA NAURAH (30802300006)

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It is no secret that being the eldest child means having to be the most reliable and perfect member of the family. The eldest child is always expected to be a role model for the youngest, not to mention the numerous hopes and expectations that come from the family. They bear all these burdens in silence. From a young age, they are the first to be taught to be strong and responsible, growing up to become guides, protectors, and comforters for everyone, except themselves.

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The song “Eldest Daughter” which ranks fifth on Taylor Swift's latest album “The Life of a Showgirl” on October 3, 2025, presents a different feel from her previous works. Fun fact: Taylor tends to place her most deep songs in the fifth position on her albums. Through honest lyrics and soft, heartfelt piano music, Taylor Swift reveals the first daughter's fragile side, expressing unspoken feelings, burdens, and expectations in the song “Eldest Daughter.” This song is undoubtedly inspired by Taylor Swift's own life, as she is the eldest daughter of her younger brother, Austin Swift. The song also contains a love story dedicated to her boyfriend, Travis Kelce, who is the youngest child, and implies Taylor's promise of loyalty to him amid public pressure.

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One of the lyrics from this song that has been widely discussed by listeners, especially Swifties (the name for Taylor Swift fans), has a very deep meaning. The lyrics describe how the first child is often portrayed as the “first attempt” in the family, where they are expected to learn, be independent, and set an example even though they may not be ready for it. As the eldest child, there is often pressure to always be perfect, even though deep down they also want to be understood and loved unconditionally. Taylor successfully turned this into a touching and honest song without losing its poetic beauty. The mask of strength can also be described in the second verse, where the firstborn, dressed like a wolf, is expected to appear strong in front of others and be brave in facing all the obstacles in their life.

            After its release, “Eldest Daughter” immediately became a hot topic among Taylor Swift fans. Many listeners, especially women, admitted that for the first time they felt “seen.” In “Eldest Daughter” Taylor Swift doesn't just talk about herself, she also writes about us. About everyone who has ever felt that they had to be the strongest to keep others calm. This song reminds us that being the eldest child is not just about birth order, but a process of learning to love, forgive, and grow on your own, even when no one teaches you how. This song is like a hug for those who feel they have to be strong even though they are fragile. Again and again, Taylor Swift provides songs that not only showcase her musical talent, but every honest lyric touches the hearts of many listeners.